Bride Won’t Let Sister Steal Her Planned Wedding – so the Family Turns on Her

Bride won’t let sister steal her planned wedding so family turn on her

Weddings are supposed to be a magical time where you and your partner come together along with your friends and family for the day of your dreams. For one bride, she had been planning this day for a long time, and the venue she and her partner had selected was perfect. It had taken a lot of searching, but once they had settled on it, they knew it was right. That is, until her sister decided that it was time for her to have a shotgun wedding. Finding a venue last minute can be tough, but this sister thought her soon-to-be wedded one might be able to help her out. Including updates from Sep. and Oct. 2023.

This article was originally published on absolutelyconnected.com and has been republished here with permission.

The Original Bride

The original bride at the heart of the story is an avid fan of online message boards and forums. She decided that she would share her story online and see if she was being unreasonable in light of the situation she was facing.

The Original Bride

She and her fiance had decided to get married but were by no means rushing to the altar. They took their time and planned the wedding meticulously, but all of that was about to be called into question.

The Sister Of The Bride

Wedding preparations were going well; the original bride had the caterers ready to go, the music picked out, the dress of her dreams, and most importantly, the venue. However, her sister decided to throw a wrench in her plans when she announced that she was expecting unexpectedly.

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As soon as she found out she was pregnant, her sister decided that she would have to get married and fast. Planning a wedding last minute isn’t easy, though; all of the best venues are booked a year in advance, but she happened to know someone who had a great venue and wasn’t in any rush.

A Big Ask

The bride’s sister decided to approach her about possibly taking her wedding venue. She figured that her sister could just put off her wedding for another year as she wasn’t pregnant. Obviously, this sister thought her need was far greater than her sister’s, and her lack of forethought wasn’t going to be something she let impede her now wedding of her dreams.

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A Big Ask

The sister was not about to cancel her wedding, though. Invitations had been sent out, and she had done all of the planning. It was simply too much to ask on the other sister’s part, but the pregnant sister didn’t see it that way.

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The Dream Wedding

The first bride had dreamed of this wedding for three years, which was the length of her engagement. The reason she and her fiance had put off getting married for so long was that she was busy completing her Ph.D., but once that was finished, their dream venue would finally be available.

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The Dream Wedding

It seemed like the stars had aligned, and the celebration of finishing her doctorate would also be her wedding day. It could not have been more perfect; at least, that was how it felt until her baby sister decided to try and commandeer her venue from her.

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The Venue

Not only had this bride’s fiance worked tirelessly to plan the wedding while she was at university, but the venue itself had actually been booked for three years. This wedding was a long time in the making. The bride’s little sister was also engaged, but it had only been for a couple of months.

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The bride never thought that her sister would try and steal her thunder in such a dramatic way, but that is exactly what she did. As soon as she found out she was pregnant, she knew that she needed a shotgun wedding and fully expected her entire family to support her.

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Short Notice

The new baby was announced at a family gathering, and everyone was excited by the news, including the bride. A baby is always a happy surprise, and the person who was thrilled the most was their grandma.

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Short Notice

She could not wait to welcome a great-grandchild and have the chance to attend not one wedding but two in the fall. The younger sister said that she wanted to be married before the baby was born, and everyone agreed it was a good plan.

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An Offer Of Help

With two weddings now on the horizon, both sisters would need some help. Grandma offered to help the youngest sister with planning her impending nuptials, which the older sister didn’t mind.

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An Offer Of Help

As long as her guests showed up for her wedding, and she was allowed to be in the spotlight, then it was fine that her sister was now getting married around the same month as her. There was just one tiny little problem.

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A Moment Of Silence

While everyone was congratulating the little sister on her baby, she turned to her older sister and delivered one last piece of information. She mentioned that she didn’t have a wedding venue, and she knew how much her sister loved her, which meant she was sure she would be okay with her taking her wedding venue. The original bride was stunned.

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She had planned her wedding for three years, and her sister thought she could take that away from her.

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An Awkward Moment

Her little sister continued to talk about how much she loved her sister’s venue and thought it would be the perfect setting for her own wedding. With her being pregnant, she could not take on any added stress of having to find a venue, and she was sure that she would understand.

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The entire family was listening to this exchange, and the older bride knew that she was expected to deliver a “Yes, of course.” This was her big day, though, and now it was being stolen.

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The Future Brother-In-Law

Her sister’s fiance could tell that this was a bad idea. He stepped in and mentioned to her sister quietly that this was neither the time nor the place to have this conversation. Clearly, the idea of taking her venue had been discussed at home, and her little sister thought it would be okay.

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She was about to be in for a surprise, though. This bride was not about to give up her big day because of an unplanned life event.

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The Family Weighs In

The original bride decided that she would not give up her wedding venue to her younger sister, which immediately caused her family to become upset. Everyone expected her to give in to her sister’s demands because her ‘need’ was greater. Her collected family members began badgering her about her decision to go ahead with her wedding.

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They called her selfish and began to say that she was not very understanding. Her fiance would not put up with it, and so the couple decided to leave.

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A Teary Phonecall

This was not the end of the matter, though. The younger sister would not give up. She called her sister in a fury, saying that clearly she did not understand, and why should she constantly get whatever she wanted?

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The bride’s father also called her to let her know that venues don’t matter, just the fact that you are marrying someone you love. While he wasn’t wrong, the entire family was asking her to give up a day she had been dreaming of and working towards for three years.

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An Ultimatum

In an attempt to force her to give up her venue, the original bride’s parents and her grandmother decided to give her an ultimatum. They declared that they would not attend her wedding ceremony and reception if she did not give the venue to her younger sister.

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It seemed like all they cared about was her younger sister’s happiness and not her own. This original bride was beside herself; was she really as awful as they were saying for not giving up her dream?

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A Tense Relationship

Throughout their childhood, she and her younger sister had squabbled because her baby sister always wanted to get her way. She, being the older sister, was accustomed to making sacrifices, and, in the end, she always let her younger sister get her way. It was easier to let her open her birthday presents or do her homework rather than fight with her.

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A Tense Relationship

This was the breaking point, though; the original bride was not going to give up her wedding day just because her sister did not want to plan a wedding.

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Favoritism

While the original bride had always put up with her sister’s antics, her grandmother had always stood by her side and supported her. She thought that her grandmother loved them both equally, but it became apparent that this wasn’t exactly the case.

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As soon as her grandmother heard about the venue debacle, she took the younger sister’s side. This was extremely disheartening, and the original bride was sad to realize that favoritism was at play.

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The Reddit Community

So, the original bride went ahead and shared her story online to see what the community would say. Was she in the right, or was she in the wrong? She really did not know at this point and was feeling very out of sorts about being at odds with her family.

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Luckily, she and her fiance were stronger than ever, or it would have been even worse. He was extremely upset that her family was acting this way and not supporting her decision at all.

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What the Online Community Had To Say

The online community pretty much unanimously agreed that the original bride deserved to keep her venue. One person suggested that she simply sit down with her family and explain the situation.

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Everyone needs to be in a safe place and openly share why they are feeling this way. The venue is one that is booked years in advance; even if her sister was not pregnant, she would have been unable to book it for a spring wedding.

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Alternative Options

Others in the online community suggested that she tell her sister she will help her find alternative venues. Since not putting stress on herself was her primary reason for wanting the venue, if her sister was to offer to help her, then she would stay relatively stress-free.

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If the original bride’s help was refused, then it would be obvious to everyone in the family that her little sister was just being unreasonable. There are always options; she just needs to look.

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An Added Layer

To add to this story, the original bride’s sister also informed her that she didn’t just want the venue. No, she also wanted to take the caterer, floral arrangements, music, and every other small detail she had planned, booked, and paid for. Basically, she wanted to steal the entire wedding!

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Now that money is entering the equation, did her younger sister even plan to pay for her own wedding? It seemed like this was all very convenient and completely unfair to the sister who had put all the time and effort in.

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Another Comment

The part of the story that really irked some people was the fact that the original bride’s father said it wasn’t about the venue but the person you were marrying. If this was really true, the original bride asked her father why he had only said this to her and not her younger sister.

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If he really believed it, then he would not have felt the need to make his older daughter feel any worse than she already did. All she wanted was her special day with her family.

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An Updated Wedding Party

After the whole debacle and the family not being understanding at all, the original bride decided to remove her sister from her bridal party. Her aunt took her place as she was the only person who defended her choice.

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Her sister’s fiance apologized on her behalf, but the damage that had been done. After that, her mother made the situation even worse by phoning her fiance’s parents, expecting to find a sympathetic ear, but they told her to go away.

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Tears All-Around

Now, there was bad blood between all of the in-laws because of her mother’s phone call. The sister did not get the venue, and for all we know, the wedding has gone according to plan, just without some key members of the family at it.

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Tears All-Around

It’s a shame that everyone could not see eye to eye during what should have been a special time. u/paperweightfairy got to see who her real family was, at the very least.

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The End (+Updates)

We hope that the original bride still got to have the wedding of her dreams. Throughout the ordeal, her fiance’s family supported her and told her that they would always be her family. Going forward, she will be able to rely on them.

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The End

Hopefully, her parents will come around in the future, and her little sister will see the error of her ways. This should be a magical time for both brides and not a time for sad tears but happy ones.

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Updates Sep. 2023, The Sister Scandal: A Viral Post and Family Fallout

After my Reddit post gained viral traction, even finding its way into mainstream media, my sister had a lot to say. She accused me of painting her as a lunatic and being unfair. In her eyes, the opinion of internet strangers should not matter because family comes first.

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But let’s set the record straight: I’m tired of sacrificing my life and dreams for her whims. She even had the audacity to ruin my graduation and now wanted to commandeer my wedding! Well, enough is enough. When I told her how I felt, her response was simply, “Wow… you must love me so very much,” before blocking me.

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The Parental Plot: Silent Treatment and Skewed Stories

My parents, interestingly enough, have remained conspicuously quiet since the episode with my father-in-law. But wait, there’s a twist! My older brother, who wasn’t at the family BBQ, reached out to me to clarify the distorted story he got from our parents.

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According to them, I had “offered” to hand over my wedding venue to my sister. What? My brother and I had a heartfelt conversation about our parents’ bias, and he revealed that one reason he moved to another city was to escape their toxic behavior.

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Wedding Wars: Securing the Big Day

With the family drama escalating, my fiancé and I took immediate steps to secure our wedding plans. We instituted passwords with most of our vendors and directly with the venue.

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However, a message from my sister made it clear she had talked to our wedding planner about rebooking the venue under her name. Time for emergency measures!

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The Final Countdown: A Community Comes Together

We decided to cancel the catering services my parents had initially paid for. But here comes the silver lining: Our friends and my fiancé’s family are stepping in to create a buffet for our wedding day. This potluck-style gathering will double as our bachelor and bachelorette parties. And guess what? Our planner, shocked by the family turmoil, assured us that no changes could be made without my presence and even offered to arrange security for our wedding at a discounted rate.

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So here we are, facing the realities of a toxic family but empowered by the support of our community. Whether or not my family will be part of my big day remains to be seen. But one thing is for sure: My brother will be walking me down the aisle, and that means the world to me.

Updates Oct. 2023, Cutting Ties and Standing Strong

Facing the Fallout with My Family: After my last update, things with my family unfortunately went from bad to worse. My parents remained unyielding in their stance, going so far as to blame me for my sister’s “depression” and her crumbling relationship. The situation escalated to the point where I had to block their numbers and even change my own to stop the relentless messages from unknown numbers and relatives. It was emotionally exhausting, especially given that this period was supposed to be a joyous one in my life leading up to the wedding. My sister and her friends also took to social media to harass me, forcing me to delete my Facebook and Instagram accounts.

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Support Systems and Reconciliation Attempts: Thankfully, my husband’s family, along with a few steadfast friends and my brother, were pillars of support during this tough time. Just days before the wedding, my Nan showed up at my doorstep, pleading to attend the ceremony. After an emotional conversation, she apologized, even if she couldn’t fully understand my reasons for not changing my wedding date. Although we hugged it out, our relationship hasn’t fully healed, but it was a step in the right direction.

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A Dream Wedding with a Dash of Drama

A Wedding Day to Remember: The big day finally arrived, and despite the turmoil, the morning started off brilliantly. My bridesmaids and I spent quality time getting ready, sipping Prosecco, and taking lots of photos. I felt radiant in my perfectly fitting wedding dress. Just as we were wrapping up our “before” pictures at the venue, my sister’s car pulled up. Panic surged through me. We had even hired security specifically to avoid any disastrous confrontations, and now it looked like we’d need it.

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When Mud-Slinging Goes Literally: As my sister approached, she was visibly enraged and started hurling insults at me. Things took an unexpected turn when she attempted to ruin my wedding dress with mud. Yes, you read that correctly—mud. In a split-second, my maid of honor sprang into action, pushing her into a flower bed instead. Security intervened immediately and escorted her off the premises. This dramatic event not only marred the day but provided me with enough grounds to file a restraining order against her. Despite the hiccup, the rest of the day unfolded beautifully. I walked down the aisle with my brother, and my husband and I shared incredibly emotional vows.

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New Beginnings and Unexpected Surprises

A Fresh Start in a New City: After the wedding, we went on an incredible honeymoon and returned with the decision to move. As much as I loved my friends, it felt essential to make a clean break from the toxicity that plagued my life. I secured a new job at a university in a larger city, and we’re currently in the process of relocating. It’s an exhilarating time for us, a new chapter that promises a fresh start.

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A Honeymoon Baby and A Life Full of Promise: But the most monumental change has to be our unexpected yet joyous news—we’re pregnant! While it wasn’t planned, we couldn’t be more ecstatic. This honeymoon baby marks the beginning of our new family, and it feels like a fitting close to a tumultuous chapter in my life. As for my family, the only updates I get are through town gossip. It appears their troubles are catching up with them, but for me, life has never been better. Thank you to everyone for the endless support. Your kind words reassured me that I wasn’t the one in the wrong, and for that, I’m eternally grateful.

Mother-in-law Ruins Son’s Wedding Over a Dress

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What is your greatest wedding day fear? As a bride-to-be, Kelly Barker expected that the most difficult issues would be ill-fitting gowns, bad weather, and no-show guests. But when she started planning the wedding, she realized her problem was her soon-to-be mother-in-law’s tendency to make a dramatic scene whenever things did not go her way.

The happy couple

Kelly Barker knew she’d met the man she’d marry the moment she met Colin Lewis. He was thoughtful and compassionate, as well as honest and hardworking. It was difficult not to fall for him. He felt the same way about her when they met that fateful day that would change the course of their lives.

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She recalled thinking to herself that he must’ve been raised properly. She thought that his parents must be responsible for the values and the manner in which he carried himself. Imagine her surprise when she discovered that his family had nothing in common with him.

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Mom-in-law

Kelly Barker was a very friendly woman with a large circle of acquaintances. She got along with almost everyone because she had an agreeable nature and was easygoing. Her fiance’s mother and soon-to-be mother-in-law were unfortunately not one of them and were not preoccupied with concealing her true feelings about her.

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Kelly and Colin were in their early thirties and had been dating for two years when Colin finally went ahead and proposed. Kelly nodded yes with happy tears, utterly oblivious of what she was getting herself into. She never could have anticipated what was about to come her way.

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Awkward and civil

Kelly has had quite a few encounters with her future mother-in-law over the years. From all those occasions they spent time together, she had the impression that she did not like her one bit. Her fiance’s mother did not make any type of effort to get along better with her.

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This was the main reason why Kelly did not invite her to go wedding dress shopping. Instead, to make her feel included, she texted her a picture of her selected garment so she could see it and give some feedback. It was a decision she would come to regret later.

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Unexpected reply

What Kelly’s future mother-in-law received in the text was a lovely, flowy, beachy-looking dress with a delicate embroidered corset design around the waist. It looked perfect for the wedding, and the garment was tastefully put together.

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She got it from a little neighborhood boutique that she and Colin both adored. It was handmade, it fit her beautifully, and the price was right. Kelly expected a simple, nice text from her mother-in-law after she sent the photo to her. Something like, “Oh, it’s lovely! You made a great choice!” Instead, chaos reigned supreme. Her future mother-in-law was having none of it.

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Acting aggressive

The despotic mother-in-law wrote back right away, demanding that she search for another dress. Kelly honestly believed she was joking or being silly to get on her nerves, until she received a barrage of hysterical texts in response. It was no joke; she did not want her to get that dress for her own wedding.

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Kelly shook her head as she scrolled through the threatening texts. She made it clear that she did not like it and that, therefore, she could not have it either. Kelly responded back, perplexed and wary, and asked why, but her response left her speechless.

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Indignant

“I do not need to give you a reason,” she said when Kelly questioned why. You should follow my instructions without questioning them. That outfit isn’t proper.” However, much to her surprise, there was a hidden explanation — and it was unexpected!

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However, Kelly was not going to allow someone to tell her what to wear or not to wear at her own wedding. This is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and it has to be her way. Kelly said, “Sorry, but I’m still wearing this dress,” adding fuel to the fire. The mother-in-law took this reply as defiant and disrespectful.

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Defiance

Kelly’s mother-in-law was a harsh woman who was obsessed with keeping up appearances. She grew up in a wealthy family and always appeared to obtain everything she desired. Her entitlement to other people’s lives and decisions felt natural to her. It was as if she were the Queen of Hearts in Alice in Wonderland; what she said was to be done.

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Kelly’s disobedience was like a slap in the face. It was a sign that she wouldn’t take her word as authority for the way she conducts her life with her son. This defiant stance sent her off the rails.

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Rising tension

Later that day, the unthinkable happened. Kelly received a call. It came from her future father-in-law, who told her that unless she agreed to change the wedding dress, the entire family would refuse to attend their wedding.

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Their wedding was to be attended by only 40 individuals of closest friends and family. Colin’s family accounted for 15 of those individuals, all of whom were acting in an irrational manner. As it was expected, tensions between the engaged pair began to rise. Colin was put in a very compromising position by his mother and later with that call from his father.

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Giving in

Colin pleaded with his bride-to-be to be flexible and change her mind about the dress. Her blood pressure was rising as a result of his reaction. How could he possibly support his family in this? They were acting completely out of character.

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But her entire wedding was on the line. She did not want her future husband’s family to miss out on the wedding, but she also felt compelled to defend herself. She thought about it and decided to swallow her pride because she wanted a peaceful celebration. So, she made a choice that would come back to haunt her.

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Complete shock

Kelly finally gave up and chose a different wedding gown. So the day came, Kelly’s in-laws attended her wedding, and everyone was pleasant and polite– until she saw her mother-in-law’s dress.

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Kelly’s mouth dropped open as she saw her mother-in-law attend her wedding in a green version of her previous wedding gown. As she strolled around in what should have been her bridal gown, true malice was written all over her face. It had now become personal. Her official mother-in-law had declared war on her, and she was ready to put up a fight. This would not go unnoticed.

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Reasoning

After witnessing her husband’s mother walking around the salon in the same wedding dress she was forbidden to wear, Kelly started looking for reasons why she would have done this. It became plainly evident why her mother-in-law prevented her from wearing her former wedding gown. She had purchased the dress for herself but in a different color.

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According to her, she claimed that if she wore the same dress as her, “Everyone would think she was pathetic and trying to mimic her son’s wife on her wedding day.” She thought only of herself and what people would think about her.

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Confrontation

Kelly approached her mother-in-law, enraged to the point that she thought she could spew molten lava from her pores. Hell broke loose inside of her, and she went to confront her about this lack of respect.

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“How dare you! Is this why you didn’t want me to wear the bridal gown of my dreams? Kelly snarled, “Because YOU wanted to wear it on my big day?” People started staring, and shortly after, a crowd started to form. The guests couldn’t believe what they were witnessing! It was as if a physical fight was about to happen between the two women.

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Feeling livid

Kelly’s husband had no choice but to acknowledge his own mother’s disdain for his wife. Even he could not overlook her childish behavior any longer. It was very hard for him to deal with this situation in the middle of his wedding when everything should have gone perfectly.

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Kelly composed herself, took a step back, and went ahead and pretended to ignore her for the remainder of the day. Nevertheless, she could not hide the fact that her husband’s mother was spoiling her wedding day. But something had to be done; there had to be justice in this world.

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Taking action

Kelly should have been surrounded by individuals who loved her and Colin equally. They wanted to celebrate their marriage in a joyful and selfless way and make it a memorable event to look back at when they get old. Her mother-in-law, on the other hand, made her feel insignificant and did not care about anyone else but herself.

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She approached Colin after supper and confided in him. She told him how she felt about the entire situation. Everyone at the wedding party was taken aback by what they did next. The surprise was big because no one saw it coming!

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Kicked out!

As Colin listened carefully to his now wife, he could see Kelly’s point of view and couldn’t help but agree with her assessment of his mother’s behavior. She had crossed the line and insulted his wife at her own wedding party. There had to be consequences to these actions.

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They resolved to approach his mother after lunch and politely begged her to leave the party. She wasn’t welcome to stay with them anymore because of her bad attitude. The mother, on the other hand, did not go quietly and caused quite the scandal for all the attendees to see!

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Second doubts

As she stood up, she looked around at the present. When she eventually left, she had taken the majority of Colin’s family with her. Colin was heartbroken to have to urge his family to leave, but he could no longer tolerate their behavior.

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He thought he had done the right thing. Kelly felt like she did the right thing as well, but the controversy ruined her special day and broke her husband’s heart. All these emotions made her question herself whether she had acted right. So, she went ahead and shared her tale on Reddit. She was appealing for assistance.

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Looking for advice

She went on Reddit to explain the story and ask for people’s opinions. Was she in the wrong for kicking her mother-in-law out of the wedding party or did she exaggerate everything? After all, even if she was petty about the matter, she wanted to be able to admit her mistake and apologize. These people were now part of her family by marriage.

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There was no way to get away from them at this point; they were here to stay, and she would have to learn to deal with them. But here’s what Reddit users had to say about it.

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Online opinions

Once she posted a summary of the grim events, the comments started multiplying fast. People seemed passionate about the story. “You can wear whatever you want,” one commenter said. However, at some point, you may need to consider whether this dress is more important than your wedding and your relationship with your in-laws.”

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“I agree with this,” another Reddit user said, “but mom-in-law and her family are ridiculously overreacting.” Kelly kept reading the replies and reflected on the opinions of hundreds of strangers who were now emotionally invested in her story. Colin was curious and also read the Reddit comments.

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Word of warning

Another anonymous internet user, on the other hand, gave Kelly a piece of advice. “Given how insane everyone in this family is, she should reconsider marrying into this family. These folks are insane, and they are going to make her life a living hell.”

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This final piece of advice would come back to haunt Kelly and Colin just 6 months later when the dreaded mother-in-law struck again in a way no one could have predicted. She was the kind of person who would hold a grudge forever and seek revenge when the time was right. This was just getting started!

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Moving forward

Despite the warnings from fellow Redditors to flee the chaotic family, Kelly and Colin were adamant about letting love triumph and move on with their lives. They were newlyweds and had a lot of hopes and dreams for this next chapter in their lives.

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They were able to settle into their new life without having to see much of their insane mother because they lived so far away. The long-distance helped to not have to interact with that side of the family that often. That is, until Kelly’s parents announced a major event. Things were about to get messy.

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The anniversary celebration

The 40th wedding anniversary of Kelly’s parents was coming up, and the plan was to have a large gathering with all their family members. It was to be a big celebration with food and dance. Kelly had already planned a few great things in her thoughts, one of which included a short video tribute. All the verbal and digital invitations had been sent out.

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Everything seemed to go as predicted. But suddenly, Colin burst into the kitchen with a concerned expression on his face. Something appeared to be distressing him greatly, and Kelly was about to join him in sentiment.

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Demanding an invite

Colin’s mother had dialed his number to speak to him as she usually did. He took the chance to inform her that he would be unable to visit them due to the anniversary celebration of his in-laws.

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The conversation swiftly turned negative, with his mother accusing him of being impolite for not inviting her – after all, they were all family. Kelly’s pupils dilated with amazement, and her blood boiled. Was she for real? She could already see the dreadful scenario that was about to unfold. Once again, she made everything about herself and caused unnecessary drama in the family.

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Reluctant compromise

After several lengthy discussions, a compromise was reached: Colin’s mother could attend, but that was it. There was simply no room for anyone else on that side of the family. Kelly’s parents also told Colin that no nonsense would be tolerated. When the big day arrived, people flocked to the recreation center, which had been decked out in a vivid, joyful Hawaiian motif.

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Kelly’s blood began to boil when Colin’s mother entered the room. Once again, her mother-in-law was creating drama on purpose just to ruin other people’s celebrations. She was hungry for attention but even hungrier for Kelly’s wrath.

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Overdressed, and then some

And so she entered the party, dressed in the same green gown she had worn at the previous wedding. That same gown had caused mayhem on Kelly and Colin’s wedding day. But that was not the end of it.

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Despite the demand for a casual dress code, she stood there with a full, intricate updo, heavy evening makeup, and costly jewelry, as if she were ready to go down the red carpet. The woman stood out like a sore thumb, and her grin was much more noticeable. The spiteful woman was trying to outstage anyone and everyone on purpose!

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Barging in

Kelly received a regretful glance from Colin. He could not believe what was happening, and he felt so embarrassed to have her as a mother. Kelly’s parents shook their heads and resumed meeting other members of the family.

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The mother-in-law walked straight to the front table and sat in the spot that was assigned to Kelly. When she was asked to relocate to another place, her indignation was at nuclear levels. Unfortunately, the heinous acts continued to happen one after the other. The woman wasn’t self-aware at all that she was causing trouble and hurting her son and daughter-in-law.

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Trying to celebrate

Games, speeches, and emotional presents were all part of the festivities for the special wedding anniversary. Kelly was incredibly proud of her tribute video to her beloved parents, which she had worked on for days on end. Everyone in the family was in tears as a result of it.

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Colin’s mother, on the other hand, sneered and rolled her eyes throughout it all as if it were a joke to her. She would also reach over and whisper something to the people sitting next to her. She was very much out of place and was being incredibly rude to them.

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More than rude

She was apparently bragging about her own anniversary celebrations and how tacky a beach theme was. Those were only a few of the many abuses she hurled at the people around her at the table.

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It did not take long for everyone in the family to want to get rid of her. Kelly’s father finally rose up and approached her to confront her about her poor attitude. He was not going to let this stranger ruin his anniversary like she had ruined his daughter’s wedding. Someone had to stop her, and he felt he had to do something about it.

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Bye bye

“If all you came here to do was be rude, you can leave. My daughter may have had no option but to put up with your actions at her wedding, but we do not have to.” Kelly’s father spoke from the heart and with class.

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Colin’s mother quickly rose to her feet, her face flushed red with wrath. Colin immediately cut her off as she opened her mouth to speak in retaliation. “Mom, just get out of here. You are not welcome here.” It was another difficult and hurtful moment for Colin, but he had to do what was right.

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A new family

While a few others expressed similar views, the entire family erupted in cheers when the awful mother-in-law finally left. As furious texts from his mother flooded in, Colin turned off his phone.

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He knew sticking up for his wife and in-laws was the right thing to do. He told Kelly’s parents, “At least I have one set of excellent parents.” They came together for a big group embrace, and it was a bonding moment for everyone. The rest of the party was fantastic. They were all in agreement that that woman would never be invited to another event ever again.

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